my story

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I first worked on college campuses for a dozen years, helping college students navigate that hugely important chapter of their life. I loved it. The college years are an incredible time to try on all kinds of life philosophies, without much real responsibility. How can you beat that?

Then for the next dozen years I worked in a church context in the Denver area (though my coaching isn't religiously focused). Life gets more complicated when you start to add careers, marriage, mortgages and kids. But that complexity is what makes life beautiful... and also harder.

Then for another dozen years I switched to international work, helping the poorest villages of Africa, the Middle East and Asia learn how to lift themselves out of crippling poverty without waiting on outside aid from their government or other countries. It was spectacular how villages could make huge changes in their future if they were open to receiving coaching.

Growing up I was very lucky to have great coaching from great parents. They were humble, wise people. My dad was an engineer and my mom was a med tech. What a great start to life.

I had a rich 34-year marriage to my late wife, who was an incredible mom and high school counselor, before we were ripped apart by cancer and her death. Facing the big tragedies of life can make you bitter or better. I'm thankful I was helped by others to choose the latter.

Together we raised four kids who turned out to be amazing adults that I am proud of and proud to call my friends. And thankfully they, their spouses and kids all actually like me. (Go figure)

I'm now remarried, to a woman who is a beloved leader in the Denver business community and who has also navigated the challenges of life with wisdom, humility and superb leadership skill. I'm a twice-lucky husband.

To add to all of that, I'm grateful to have thoughtfully managed  personal finances well enough to retire at 61, even though my whole life has been in the non-profit world. (And now I get to pursue my joys of songwriting and house construction/remodeling)

Life can be very challenging. But with the right thoughtful steps and support, it can also be immensely beautiful and rewarding.